I didn't know Mummy had told him.

Oh love why didn't you tell Mummy?

Mummy told me this morning old Armiger was dead.

How many times has Mummy told you not to wander off like that?

My Mummy told me not to talk to strange men.

Mummy, you must come and tell Golly not to.

Mummy told him off for saying it when I was there.

Mummy tell daddy to put me in the hall.

She later said, "Cancer was such a taboo then - Mummy didn't even tell her sisters."

And as Mummy told me, it was always being unknown that made it easy for us to survive.