"It's like when two neighbors are fighting and you allow one of them to use your house so he can attack," she said.
The neighbours have fought two wars since 1947 over Kashmir.
I understand that just as survivors of rape struggle to overcome their terror, others, friends and neighbors, must fight to maintain control over their lives.
But the extreme rightist National Front was fiercely opposed, while the mosque's future neighbors fought the project in court.
Another neighbour, John Wells, is fighting for his life.
The new neighbors of Frontier Village didn't want any expansion and fought the park development plans.
In a war two neighbors fight some die serving the country, some enemies also die for the sake of their home land.
But neighbors fought over fencelines and missing sheep, too.
More than once, the neighbors fought the city just to get the grass cut.
Staying home was no less stressful - down the hall, drunken neighbors fought almost every night.