And guests feel they can expand those lists at will.

"Because then, if the guests didn't feel like meat that night and they wanted fish, things would be out of control."

Imminent death wasn't the only way to make a guest feel "expansive."

She smiled, because it was part of her job to make guests feel welcome.

He has clearly been placed there to make other guests feel at ease.

She said of her position, "It's all about making your guests feel respected and welcome."

"It made the guest feel part of the wedding," she said.

They were always good-mannered and could make any guest feel welcome.

Such personal attention, she said, "enables guests to feel like they're coming home again."

My guests will feel more at ease when they know you are here.