One of his favorite metaphors concerns the small fish who are eaten by barracudas.
"You've got to have people performing on the high trapeze," he says, swinging onto a favorite metaphor.
Even amid death, there is, then, one of Graham's favorite metaphors: the tree of life.
Which is why his favorite metaphor is a kid with a clock.
"It's not so much black versus white now as it is barracudas eating up small fish," he said, using one of his favorite metaphors.
Replay the tape of life, he says - his favorite metaphor - and see what happens.
The evening's discussion also gives the Scheibners a chance to touch on one of their favorite metaphors: the funnel.
Another method of cheating at cards that has become a favorite American metaphor for deception in any field is the fast shuffle.
One of his favorite metaphors was about transformative possibilities.
He had a favorite metaphor for this concept ... do you know the old game of twenty questions?