There is no 'appropriate' thing to do on the day of your wife's funeral.

It was the day of Mother's funeral and we were gathered in her living room.

The King had ordered it on the day of his friend's funeral.

Why have you been pursuing me ever since the day of my husband's funeral?

The day of his father's funeral he ran 10 miles.

It did not seem right, somehow, to be working on the day of his father's funeral.

It all came back to me from the days of my father's funeral.

He died ten days later on the day of her funeral.

My father died in January 1991; the gulf war began the day of his funeral.

Is this what you do, she says, on the day of your brother's funeral?