The daughter, now 29, recalled that nowhere in her mother's glowing description were his looks mentioned.

"But my mother threw herself over us when the shooting started," her daughter recalled.

"You don't have to kill yourself today," she said more than once, her daughter recalled.

The grand daughter, moreover, recalled even this much with difficulty.

His daughter recalls that "he felt he was just beginning to understand what acting is all about."

Maybe that daughter will recall this book in years to come when she knits a sweater for her own baby.

Neither mother nor daughter could recall giving or getting advice about boys.

"They were always playing practical jokes on each other," his daughter recalled.

He went on to be a union staff member, organizer and vice president, his daughter recalled.

His daughter, Vernessa, a college student, recalled the same thing.