Smiling at grief, Joel thought.

Come, girls, don't mock at grief.

Webb looked around at his family, at the blood and destruction and grief.

'On a monument, I see,' a voice said below her, 'but not, I hope, smiling at grief.'

We cannot bear emotion in public, and we look at grief as pathological or a sign of emotional instability.

Here Sam and Frodo, like Faramir, have little hope but still think of others in the future maybe 'laughing at grief'.

But time wore away at grief, and his body had its own demands.

"That's quite inapt," she said tartly, 'for I'm not smiling at grief, nor am I turning green and yellow.

Both turned at the sound, guilt and grief clear on their faces.

It may be trouble reconnecting with high school buddies, difficulty focusing at work, flashbacks or grief.